You can listen to the so called non-mainstream music and still can enjoy the top 40 ones.
You can scroll through any of your social media accounts on your smartphone and still can engage yourself with the conversation you're having with your friends.
You can take loads of pictures of your life and still can enjoy the moment.
You can read tons of classical books and still can giggling over contemporary YA books.
You can record videos at a music concert and still can sing and dance like there's no tomorrow.
You really can do one thing and do the other "opposite" thing people don't expect you to do.
Because it doesn't have to go one way or the other. As long as you do no harm to other people, I think it's alright.